Monday, January 23, 2012
yeahgrrrl:

thepeachtrees:

thiscuntsays:

butterflieseatzombies:

periodp00ps:

infectedgirlsdoitbetter:

how about i put on a strap on and stick it in your ass
dickwad

fuck this guy fuck this guy fuck this guy (with a 15 inch dildo)
oh and fuck everyone that reblogged it too

what the fuck is wrong with this human. fuck this guy with something hard and sandpapery.

how does this have so many likes? this is awful!
also men tattoo and pierce themselves all the time yet the straight fellas aren’t expected to take it up the ass.
double standards much?

um, okay, how bout you take something up your butt as well? why is this always expected of cis girls.. why..

I read an article in Jezebel a while ago about the fascination with anal sex and i’m going to quote it now. 
“doing anal right required far more time, artificial lubrication, and care than any other sex act. That care is distinctly absent in most heterosexual porn that depicts anal sex. Indeed, the pain of anal seems to be part of its appeal. One very popular porn genre features a “casting couch” storyline, in which young ingénues are interviewed and then talked — or tricked — into doing their first anal scene. Instead of the careful, gentle preparation that good anal sex requires, the sex is quick and rough, often with only spit for lubricant. Almost invariably, the camera focuses on the young woman’s grimaces. More so than with any other sex act in mainstream heterosexual porn, in depictions of anal sex there’s an explicit connection between women’s discomfort and male arousal. A cursory examination of the most popular videos in the genre suggests that the real money shot isn’t the image of a penis entering a woman’s rectum as much as it is the image of her unhappy face as she’s penetrated.” 
Obviously i’m not trying to shame anyone who’s into it, i just thought it was an interesting point about *depictions* or anal sex, not personal decisions, etc. 
 also fuck this guy, hope his butthole falls out. 


All right. I’m going to take a swing at this and hopefully keep the hate mail to a minimum. Because all of this hate is not fair. This guy is not a demon. He is stupid. He said something ignorant and misinformed, but I don’t think he should be criminalized. I think this is the root of the problem. People who say hateful things out of pure ignorance are written off as horrible human beings rather than educated on why what they said has harmful implications. What good does reposting his comment online, where a thousand people can voice their wishes that his butthole falls out do?  Nothing. Exactly. It will probably just make him angrier and defensive.
 Honestly, this dude has just probably never put it in a girls butt and probably just got rejected real hard. I think that if given the chance and a consenting partner, he would realize that all the hype is simply because it’s not as common. It hurts, it can be messy, and therefore anal sex is something elusive and sometimes desirable. It’s the El Dorado of sex and there is not always a city of gold waiting at the end.
He’s not a rapist and he’s probably not even a woman hater, just an idiot. An oversharing idiot.
And all the wishes expressed for this guy to be sodomized by “15 inch dildos” and “something hard and sandpapery?” Realllllly counterproductive to your arguments.

yeahgrrrl:

thepeachtrees:

thiscuntsays:

butterflieseatzombies:

periodp00ps:

infectedgirlsdoitbetter:

how about i put on a strap on and stick it in your ass

dickwad

fuck this guy fuck this guy fuck this guy (with a 15 inch dildo)

oh and fuck everyone that reblogged it too

what the fuck is wrong with this human. fuck this guy with something hard and sandpapery.

how does this have so many likes? this is awful!

also men tattoo and pierce themselves all the time yet the straight fellas aren’t expected to take it up the ass.

double standards much?

um, okay, how bout you take something up your butt as well? why is this always expected of cis girls.. why..

I read an article in Jezebel a while ago about the fascination with anal sex and i’m going to quote it now. 

doing anal right required far more time, artificial lubrication, and care than any other sex act. That care is distinctly absent in most heterosexual porn that depicts anal sex. Indeed, the pain of anal seems to be part of its appeal. One very popular porn genre features a “casting couch” storyline, in which young ingénues are interviewed and then talked — or tricked — into doing their first anal scene. Instead of the careful, gentle preparation that good anal sex requires, the sex is quick and rough, often with only spit for lubricant. Almost invariably, the camera focuses on the young woman’s grimaces. More so than with any other sex act in mainstream heterosexual porn, in depictions of anal sex there’s an explicit connection between women’s discomfort and male arousal. A cursory examination of the most popular videos in the genre suggests that the real money shot isn’t the image of a penis entering a woman’s rectum as much as it is the image of her unhappy face as she’s penetrated.” 

Obviously i’m not trying to shame anyone who’s into it, i just thought it was an interesting point about *depictions* or anal sex, not personal decisions, etc.

 also fuck this guy, hope his butthole falls out. 


All right. I’m going to take a swing at this and hopefully keep the hate mail to a minimum. Because all of this hate is not fair. This guy is not a demon. He is stupid. He said something ignorant and misinformed, but I don’t think he should be criminalized. I think this is the root of the problem. People who say hateful things out of pure ignorance are written off as horrible human beings rather than educated on why what they said has harmful implications. What good does reposting his comment online, where a thousand people can voice their wishes that his butthole falls out do?  Nothing. Exactly. It will probably just make him angrier and defensive.

Honestly, this dude has just probably never put it in a girls butt and probably just got rejected real hard. I think that if given the chance and a consenting partner, he would realize that all the hype is simply because it’s not as common. It hurts, it can be messy, and therefore anal sex is something elusive and sometimes desirable. It’s the El Dorado of sex and there is not always a city of gold waiting at the end.

He’s not a rapist and he’s probably not even a woman hater, just an idiot. An oversharing idiot.

And all the wishes expressed for this guy to be sodomized by “15 inch dildos” and “something hard and sandpapery?” Realllllly counterproductive to your arguments.

Notes

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    i apologize but im reblogging actually, because i think its super funny that people got so crazy over a guy commenting...
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  8. creatureskissing-intherain reblogged this from thiscuntsays and added:
    god i fucking hate everything.
  9. hawaiihellaflush reblogged this from whorederves and added:
    This is too funny because I have my nipples pierced, have a bunch of tattoos, remove hair with tweezers, & hot wax my...
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  22. yourrushmore reblogged this from grrlpower and added:
    All right. I’m going to take a swing at this and hopefully keep the hate mail to a minimum. Because all of this hate is...
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  27. heavymetalharlot reblogged this from thiscuntsays and added:
    Fuck anyone who thinks like the guy in the screenshot. I am happy to put myself through reasonable pain on my own terms...
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  31. thepeachtrees reblogged this from thiscuntsays and added:
    um, okay, how bout you take something up your butt as well? why is this always expected of girls.. why..
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  36. meltyrbrain reblogged this from yeahgrrrl and added:
    Like in Final Destination, then?